Friday, October 13, 2017

Six rules to make people like you

1. Become interested in other people 

This means to always be kind to other people and ask them questions that they enjoy answering. Be genuine and friendly so people can treat you the same way. Instead of waiting for other people to come to you, you need to be interested in other people.

2 Smile

Smiling is a great way to make a good first impression. Smiling also can give off a caring feeling towards others. an example of this can be in a picture. When you have a photo taken of yourself and you smile it makes you look like a good person which is whom people want to associate themselves with



3. Remember names

Remembering names is the best way to keep track of the people you meet. People like to hear their named called. Remembering names will also let other people know that you cared enough to keep their name in mind. If you don't remember names, then you are headed in a bad direction. Other people will also keep your name in mind when you remember their name.

4.

Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.


To be a good listener means to feel interested in what others have to say. When you are a good listener and encourage people to talk about themselves people really start to get to like you because a good listener makes people feel like they are getting their point out. people tend to like to talk about themselves so when you encourage it, they will feel like you really care and they will really admire that about you. An example of this can be when you are in a relationship. Some couples tend to fight because they don't feel like they are being listened to. That's why you need to act interested even if you are not.

 

5. Talk in terms of the other mans interest.

It means to talk to other people about what they treasure most. This will make them more interested in talking to you. Make them interested in what you talk about. This is a great way to make a person like you because if they are to see you again, they will be reminded that they have the same interest as you because that one time you talked about their favorite topic. This is a great strategy to make people like you because you two would just be talking that catches both of your attention.

6. Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely 

When you make someone feel more important and appreciated, they feel extremely happy. That is the importance of making someone happy. When you do this you will be treated with kindness. Treating someone with kindness will also make them feel more welcome. Treat others how you want to be treated. An example of this rule can be when you are trying to make new friends. When you talk to a person making them sound greater than you in a sincerer way, they will like you for making them sound like a great person. When a person talks about you, you need to treat them with respect. 

Reflection: I think that these rules are very helpful and can help people who are trying to fit in. I will try to apply these rules to my everyday life. I will also try to tell other people about these rules. I think I will do a great job in executing these rules. 

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